It's late and things are finally quieting down. Busy day! Spent the afternoon at Helen's. (college roommate). What a spectacular ride. Very remote location somewhere in Schoharie County, yet only took an hour. We are so close! Helen and Fritz hosted a birthday party and their entire circle of Staten Island/Brooklyn friends piled into their cottage. Their friends - what can I say? All of them multi-talented. They have known each other for over 25 plus years meeting Fritz in high school and connecting through a Karate program for which they all are black belts. (Helen too!) The group of about 20 adults continue to bond as teachers, social workers, psycholgists, professors (some work together at schools), all trying to make the world a better place. Many are also musicians, and tonight they are gathering for a concert and sing-along. They are staying at places nearby and visit with each other regularly.

(I loved meeting Paula and Connie, Fritz's sister and neice!)

Did I mention the children? I didn't count, but there must have been about 15 children scurrying around the property. In his usual style, Alan found familiar markers including playing "doorman" as well as a guitar. The "ball pit" was fun to. He played music and trains with Christopher, and ate lots of cake. I am thankful that Eileen joined me. It gave me time to relax and be with Helen. (plus she enjoyed meeting all of the teachers with such strong social interests!)

The remarkable thing - This was a close-knit group who have known each other for years, yet they welcomed me into their world. I don't ever recall ever feeling so comfortable in a place where I didn't know people. So many interesting people. And again, it was so amazing to be with Helen again. Seeing her navigate in her world today made me happy that her life is enriched with love, friendship and family.
So Happy Birthday Nicholas! What a lucky boy!